Ilaj-e-Kibr (which means something like “Treatment of Pride / Arrogance”) by Hakeem Akhtar deals with how arrogance (or pride) affects a person’s faith, behavior, and relationships. The book explores what causes pride, how it shows up in the heart and actions, and why it is harmful — not only spiritually, but socially.
Then it offers ways to cure pride. The author describes spiritual remedies: humility, seeking knowledge, reflecting on one’s faults, remembering how small we are in the grand scheme of things. He encourages readers to adopt traits like modesty, gentleness, gratitude, and to make supplication (dua) to ask God for help to overcome arrogance.
What this really means is that Ilaj-e-Kibr is more than just theory. The book gives practical guidance: how to check yourself, when pride creeps in, and how to act instead with humility. It is aimed at improving character (akhlaq) and drawing a person closer to God.
Who Should Read It:
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Anyone who notices arrogance in themselves and wants to become more humble.
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Muslims wanting to deepen their spiritual and moral life.
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People who teach ethics or spirituality and want material to help others understand pride.
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Anyone curious about Islamic perspectives on character, self-correction and inner growth.
